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Echoing that Portland is a big part of the problem. Remember, know yourself and honor the things you need; be willing to compromise; take things slowly and go get Mr. 1 Maybe, but Best of luck! 2 And as such, there may be nothing objectively wrong about yourself for you to change at all. If this is the amount of work it takes to get zero dates, how much work will it take to get one date, let alone a relationship? 3 I don't know much about Portland, but some cities are notoriously chilly to outsiders. You're kind of making it sound like you want ANY relationship, not a relationship with a specific person. 4 The commonality between them is how few of their matches result in dates. I feel most guys just stop at my gentle disposition and assume I must be a bit boring if not a prude altogether. 5 Best of luck! From what you've written here, it sounds like have literally done very nearly everything you can do. 6 Who remains "dateless" and who seems to have neverending options often comes down to quirks of fate. I don't personally think I'd ever find someone to date there. 7 Are there any specifically queer POC meet ups or groups you could join? Become a Supporter of the Independent! 8 I think dating in 30s is best. Not too young that you don't know what you're doing with your life, but not too old that you still can't have fun if you want. Find the right man instead of hoping to score your dream man. 9 As we prepare to enter our 30s, and for those of us that are already here, I encourage you to alter your approach to dating. Until you want to date people because they seem interesting, and not because they have the potential to validate your worth as a human being, you are inviting "bad luck" into this whole endeavor. 10 1. "Work on your stuff (therapy, friends, journaling, silent retreats, however you need to), but don't wait until you're finished working on yourself to date. My husband and I seem like opposites at times, but we complement each other in a lot of ways. 11

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